♡ Sunday, September 14, 2008
LDR
LDR= Long distance relationship
I am one never who will never go into a LDR. The time apart is simply too agonizing for me to bear and often people says that absence do make the heart fonder. but i dont really think it hold true for me. for me, its mostly the case of " out of sight, out of mind". sighs.
I am often amazed at people who can actually maintain a LDR. But what makes a LDR successful? for one thing, you must have absolute faith in ur partner and feel totally secure with him/her. otherwise, it will be super damn tiring to maintain this r/s if you have to spend every min and second guessing whether ur the other half is cheating on you or doing smth that is way beyond the line.
for me, i am never the most secure person on earth, even the person may be just right next to me. I will always be wanting to get into his head, and trying to decipher what is he thinking of right now. Yes, i am such a person. dunno whether its good or bad but i just can't help feeling the way i am feeling.
hai, why so much ranting about this cos i am going thru a mini LDR now. so funny, after 30 mths tog, and i still bawl like a baby when he left. one month without him seemed like ages though everyone around me kept telling me one month is a short period only.
i know but i think this is the longest we have been apart. and its totally not helping whenever i see waffle cos he reminds me so much of his daddy. and i feel so bad having to leave him everytime alone in the big room. wish i could take him back with me but my sisters got dogophobia.
just received baby's good night sms. feel so happy when there is someone on the otherside of the causeway thinking of u. ok, i am so freaking mushy that i can't stand it.
ciaos.
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